Hi, My bridesmaid dresses have a black sash, so I am thinking black shirts for the groomsmen now. Or, maybe the groom can wear a linen jacket with a white shirt and the grooms men can wear white shirts as well. Shirts tucked in or out? If groom is wearing a jacket, then obviously tucked in. My two sons are in it as well, and I have short sleeved white shirts for them (ages 4 and 10 months), so I thought to match their dad, he would wear a short sleeve shirt as well, but he doesn't want to. So do you think it would still look okay if the kids wore short sleeve and the adult men wore long sleeve? Yes, I'm so indecisive! BeachesSB1412, here is a link to the blog I was following on this bride trying to choose outfits: http://www.weddingbee.com/2008/10/06/dressing-the-beach-boys/ She is She was having the same troubles as me and it was ncie to see the pics she found!!