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Thats so great! I wish I had pics or even a transcript. I have no idea what I said, I just remember my emotions! He sounds like a great guy. Congrats!

Just when you think that he isn't listening to you! Sounds like he needed to catch you off guard anyway! Congrats!

I like how he organized the big moment to be private for you two, and then immediately followed it with friends and family to celebrate with! Congrats!

That is incredible! Guys can be so surprisingly romantic and thoughtful! Congrats!

Thats so great! Now, you have a permanent record of the event. Congrats!

Thats the best, most creative idea! And it fits with them being photographers!

Wow, thats is breathtaking! I am afraid that I might have gotten so excited that I would fall off the mountain! Congrats!

Very romantic! I bet it was just beautiful! Congrats!

Thats the sign of a good man, if he is trying to include his daughter. Congrats!

Thats great! Just don't forget to water your ring. LOL Congrats!

Sounds like you had a great Christmas! Congrats!

That is so sweet! Thats how you know he must be the one. Congrats!

We have dated for almost 6 years. It will be almost 7 years when we wed! I used to think that was a long time to date someone, until I read this post. We actually never really wanted to marry until the past year. We jokingly called each other "life partners" bc boyfriend/girlfriend just didn't describe our relationship enough.

What I have learned from BDW is that any reputable TA should offer a low price guarantee, and don't be afraid to shop around although I wouldn't let price be the only factor. Sometimes it is worth it to pay a little extra if the TA will handle your needs.

Hey, everyone! We are getting married in Jamaica in December 2011, but still working on the specifics like resort and date! Hopefully, this should all be nailed down soon. Any advice is welcome, just know that price is a big factor. So no Moon Dance Villas for us, although they look incredible!

Congrats! We will be getting married in Jamaica in December 2011 but are still nailing down the resort. DeAngelis - I would definitely recommend the Couple Resorts for a honeymoon. We have only been to Couples San Souci in Ocho Rios but it was amazing...by far the best resort ever, and I am saying that when we were rained out for half of it! We are considering Swept Away but it is pricier and San Souci was mind-blowing. I looked at Sandals but I didn't like how big they are bc you just turn into another number. Couples resorts are pretty small (less than 300 rooms) so you tend to see the same other guests so you make friends easily and we aren't super-social by nature. But better than that is the food. Most AIs struggle to provide good food but Couples is really good. And the staff is really great overall. Yes, there were a few that weren't friendly all the time but that was 2 or 3 people out of 100. I also like that they have floats to use in the pool or in the ocean water. Just look closely, because they aren't all the same. Like only 1 or 2 resorts offer room service, and not all of the rooms have TVs or minibar.

No, I have never had to experience this, but I do have experience giving people bad/disappointing news. First, tell him something complimentary, like how happy you and FI are that he is attending. Next, give him perspective, like how excited you are about the wedding but you have to juggle your wants with the wants of others. Now, break it to him gently, like "I know this means a lot to you but..." . Next, try to offer him a consolation, like he will get the first father-bride dance or escorting someone else down the aisle (grandmother, sister, etc). Lastly, remind him how grateful/excited you are to have him. Its good to practice this aloud so you can get the wording right. I hope this helps!

Thanks so much! I was curious about the stamps, too.

I think it is tacky to write it on the invite, BUT I do understand that you can already own the traditional stuff so why not ask for money! We have lived together for 5+ years. I don't need a blender, but I do need to remodel the bathroom and kitchen. I know that I can register at home depot, but wouldn't it be wierd for my guests to show up with countertops? or a medicine cabinet? I just don't like how people don't like to acknowledge that, yes, people need money. I actually think that gift cards are tackier than cash.

January 23, 5:54pm - Reviewing Travels agent quotes, and trying to pick a resort and a TA! Hoping that I can move forward soon.

Yoga, I guess although I have never tried it before! Would you ever run a marathon?

Like Mexican Food?

Wow! This really helps me put things into perspective. I really like the 10-10-10 rule. Thanks so much!

A Christmas Story Gold or Silver?

Thanks for the ceremony script! It will be so helpful to have a basis to start our vows.