Tiffanya21

Looking for the cake topper and the toasting flutes in the pictures. If you have them and would like to get rid of them, PM me with how much you are asking. Thanks for your time.

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Not right now, but I can get one. They are not broken or chipped in anyway. I will post them tonight.

OMG I love it. Too bad I am getting married in Jamaica.

I have 10 sugar starfish. They are 4-6". I am close to the shop that I bought them at, so wiling to get you more if you need more. Asking $3 ea plus shipping.

I wont need it until October. So tht isnt a problem....the price I am not sure about. I found them brand new online for $30 but they were out of stock. What were you thinking?

I am looking for Lillian Rose, Heart Vase, Sand and Shell Toasting Glasses. If you have a set and are willing to sell, please let me know. I am located in zip 32833. Thanks!

Looking to sell 30 peacock organza chair sashes and 5 organza table overlays to match. I bought these for my AHR, but they are not the right color. I opened one package of chair sashes to see the color, but none of them have been used and are still in their original packaging. Asking $40 for all OBO, shipped in the US. (Will ship to Canada, but it will be extra).

I bought these from another bride knowing I would need more. I have 12 salt shakers and 12 pepper shakers. They are SO cute. They stack on top of each other, or you can set them next to each other. I wish I could use them, I am just not willing to spend the money on another 2 sets. They are approximately $30-35 per set (which includes 12 pairs). I paid $20 for this set. I am just trying to recoop that money so I can buy enough sets for my AHR. Currently, they have salt and pepper in them. I can empty that to save on shipping, or ship with them full. Just let me know what you prefer. Asking $20 plus shipping. (If you think that is unfair, please PM and lets work something out) Thanks for looking!

I am still wanting to share an order with someone. I really want those jumbo Jamaica pens, and maybe the keychains... PM me if you guys want to order and are short.

OMG Great way to start hump day! So funny!

Subbi, seems like your MOH is a disaster. And to think these people are supposed to be our friends?! I'm sorry girl. Hopefully she will wake up soon and realize what a Maid-of-Zilla she has been! Update: So I briefly talked with my MOH. She said she thought that I didn't want her included. That doesn't make sense to because I picked her as my MOH. Whatever. She said she is going to try to be more involved. She started to ask me all these details about the wedding, so we are starting off on a good foot. Lets see how long it lasts (hopefully until the wedding *crossing fingers*). I also talked with my BM. This was a hot mess. Long story short, she wants to be involved. She said she was trying to put me first and that she wants our day to be perfect. Which is the old girl I used to know. I pretty much told her I don't know her anymore and if she didn't want to be apart of the wedding, she didn't have to. I told her I was trying to be sensitive to her situation and it blew up in my face and now she needs to decide what is to come next. She apologized. She said she didn't realize what she was doing. She said she really wants to be in the wedding, and that she is honored that we asked her to be a BM. So I told her to start acting like it. Harsh I know, but it is what needed to be done. I am not playing these crappy games anymore with my wedding party. You are either in or out. If you accept those responsibilities, you have to be there. Anyhow, we talked a little about the wedding, and that was about it. Haven't really spoken too much since, so I am not sure if we are still on the same page or different ones. After the discussion, it seemed like we were on the same page, but who knows. We shall see shortly when I decide to get the dresses. To be continued after I talk to the guys....

One more thing.... I am SO happy to hear that you liked Sunset Jamaica Grande! I can not WAIT to get there. I have never been, but my parents visited, and also loved it. YAY. That is definitely something to look forward to, wedding party or not.

Thanks ladies for the support. I really appreciate it. You all are completely right. I feel so lucky that of all people, I can count on my fiance. Ginger, that was probably very smart. I already considered doing the same. I have a friend who is attending. She is paid 100% and she really wanted to be in the wedding party but wasn't offended that I couldn't chose her. She has been a help when I needed it. I am thinking, if these "Friends" that are in my wedding party currently decide to flake out and totally not help on my wedding day, at least I know she will be there for me for those last minute details. BusyBee123, I was thinking the same thing about the wedding party being so inconsiderate. We had a different groomsman, but he backed out just the way that yours is. He said at first, "I am DEFINITELY going!" But his gf isn't too friendly, to say the least. I am guessing she decided she didn't want to go, or want him to go because after they talked, he text us saying, "Sorry, I can't attend the wedding. I can't afford it right now. I am going on vacation in August and my final payment is due soon. I also am proposing, so I am saving up for a ring. Oh and I got hurt at work, so I am unstable and not sure what my health will be when October rolls around. Because I am hurt, I had to take off work, so its putting me in a bind with money. And...." I mean they went on FOREVER. It was like, ok just tell me your dog ate your plane ticket already. LOL. Nonetheless, we picked another flaky groomsman who is also not working out. I should have went with my original plan which was to have a MOH and a best man and that be it. I also should have done just what Ginger did, and wait until the last minute. Its just so hard when these people start assuming they are in your wedding party. Not to mention you just get so anxious to ask people to be in your wedding party, thinking it will be just like the TV weddings where all the friends are really supporting and so anxious for the wedding day and they are there for you every step of the way. I guess it is lessons learned. For me, it tells me what kind of friends they really are. The crappy part is, I would NEVER be that kind of BM to them. As a matter of fact, I was a BM in both of their weddings before they were both called off. I spent SO much time, effort, and money (which was all wasted later) on them. I guess I just think I deserve better than that. I am going to try to talk with ALL of them again this week. One at a time. I really want them to try to understand how I am feeling. Hopefully they will recognize their behavior and become the ideal wedding party. We shall see. I will keep you girls updated on the outcome.

Let me start by saying that I feel like brides on here, whom I have never met in my life, and probably won't, help me way more than my wedding party (which is a complete disaster). I don't know what to do. We are about 6 months out from our wedding date, and my wedding party is just so uncooperative. My MOH has NO idea what is going on with our wedding. Her and I grew up together, and we always talked about us getting married and being each others MOH. Yet, now that my time has come, she is no where to be found. She was there for my engagement and so happy for me, but it seems like her life is too complicated right now for her to even care about slight details in my wedding. I am NOT trying to be a bridezilla. Actually, I feel pretty calm about the wedding and details to date, BUT I do feel like she should be there for me more. I mean, aren't MOH suppose to be there to help pick out the dress, and invites, and places, and decor, and colors, and and and? My mom has been there for me this whole time luckily, but its not the same as a BFF. What stinks is, in the beginning, I wanted my other friend to be in my wedding. I actually wanted her to be the MOH, but I couldn't do that to my childhood friend, so I just asked her to be a BM. She was understanding. Since that moment, her life has turned completely upside down. We went from planning our weddings together and talking wedding daily to her breaking up with her fiance and partying AT LEAST 4 nights a week. She has pretty much cut me from the cliche because I am the only one in a relationship. Any time I even bring up the wedding, she changes the subject. What is making me upset is, I stopped talking to her about the wedding out of respect/courtesy, and she questioned me. I told her plans were still the same regardless of her situation with her relationship. She was relieved. My mistake was, I thought that was the awkward conversation about weddings and I could carry on my wedding convo's, just not as often. I was wrong. Now, I don't know what to do. A girl I barely even know is a BM at this moment. To top it off, the best man FORGOT he was asked to be the best man. AND the groomsman hasn't booked a room or flight or anything yet, and the deadline for booking under the group rate was over a month ago. The resort we picked does sell out! I am so nervous that he won't be able to book a room when he is ready/if he is ever ready. I feel like my wedding party is so out of control and we only asked 4 people! For pete's sake, I thought they would be the easy part. In the beginning my fiance and I were so sure about these 4 people, now we are second guessing ALL of them. IMO its rediculous. These friends (and family) should be there for us now, more than ever. I would THINK they would want this to be the happiest day of our lives, and would want to contribute. Right now, I think we picked the wrong people. The only person I feel like I can count on is my future husband. I wish my friends were more supportive....or just friends at that. Sigh. Unfortunately, sitting down and talking our feelings out with these people has not worked. They put effort in for about a day then continue on as if we never told them we were hurt. Any suggestions?