UPDATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So I sucked it up and went to the planned celebration. Honestly, I was feeling better with the whole situation, just had the hurt feeling 'cause I knew I was going to be missing my friend's wedding. Well she confirmed that she booked July 30th for her wedding, at the same time confirming that it was the only place she looked at/called on. Okay, okay so it was happening, I was fine with it. THE KICKER!!!!!!! She went on to say that the only other day available was June 17th (my wedding date!). She pointed out that it was my date, BUT right after she said, "We were going to go with the 17th, but my cousin is getting married the following weekend and we didn't want our families to have to go to 2 weddings in a row." Are you friggin kidding me?! That was her reason?! The fact that it was my wedding date didn't deter you away from the date!!!!! OMG I am so livid!!!!!! It has definitely put me in my place on where I am in her eyes!!! Yup, she seriously downgraded!! UUUUUUGH!! BTW, she still hasn't told me that she isn't coming to my wedding.... just heard it through people.