Hey I think the anxiety is good if you tune it more to the excitement side than the worrying side. Most of the reviews on here for IRHS have been great. I fact I havent seen a bad one, obviously just a few minor things not going to plan. I think not everything will go exactly perfect as you had planned it but I'm sure it will turn out perfect how it was meant to be. If you are prepared with all your end of things and know exactly what you want it should be fine. From the reviews Nicole seems good. I get married on the 16th December, I am having my MOH and another bridesmaid check out the reception on the day to make sure they have remembered to put everything out, and light the candles! lol. I am determined to enjoy the day and not stress out. The joys of a 4pm wedding! I do understand what you mean about the communication from Nicole, I emailed her yesterday for something quite simple and haven't heard anything back. I always end up calling. she is usually in after 12pm JA time 0018766800000. Another good thing is they only do one wedding a day! so your details wont get all mixed up. If your wedding date is quite far away I know she says that they usually start working on the details 6 weeks before. Which does kind of make sense, but its still nice to get a reply on some requested info. I would relax a bit and not stress, a destination wedding should be laid back and fun. Just get excited! xoxo