My fiance and i have just started the planning thing and he has a 9 year old that loves the spotlight, but would hate to actually have to read something or speak out loud. We have been struggling to find something for her in the ceremony the family medallion thing is awesome... i think she will be too old/big to be a flower girl and we have some younger nieces...we wont have a ring bearer...she likes the idea of being "the presenter of the rings" thanks for the ideas...