I'm so glad I found this thread. Reading all your stories has made me feel so much better about being in the same situation. I originally assumed that we would have a very small wedding. Much to my surprise, over 50 people responded that they were coming or told other friends that they were coming. Now, with 3 months to go, only 2 couples have actually booked. My booking close date is March 1st. I'm sure that some of these people will wind up coming, but it's looking like my number will be closer to 20-25. I'm completely fine with that and am extremely thankful that those people will be coming. At the same time, I feel a little disappointed because I've spent so much time planning things around a big group. I'm so confused what to do about my plans now. Do I still get a DJ and dance floor for 20 people? I feel like it will look silly. Can you still have a tradtional reception with that small of a group or is it just a private dinner? I'm honestly a little sad at this point. We're not having an AHR and I really want to have all those special moments...the first dance, cake cutting, etc. My bridal party is seriously going to be half of those attending! I'm so confused now.