That is pretty much what I've decided at this point, too. I figure I can save 10k between now and May. I will pay off my travel, wedding package, rings, etc......all the essentials. I'm hoping that I get enough room bookings to earn the unlimited private events. Right now I think I have a total of 65 room nights, but that is only counting the people I am sure are going. There are still a whole list of people that I think may come as well. The recetption budget (dj, center pieces, photography, etc) will come down to what I have left at that point and maybe a little from our income tax return. I got really lucky, I actually won my dress and all my bridesmaid dresses from a sweepstake in Bridal Guide. I even had a little left over to get a dress for the reception dinner and welcome party.