echraide, I think your dad is right, lol. I'll give them a few more months before I start the nagging, hehe! He also brings up a good point about requesting for vacation at his place of employment. My only issue is that the guests final payment to my travel agent is due Jan. 15, so hopefully people are able to 'lock in' their 2012 vacation weeks sooner. :- / I forgot to mention that my parents are throwing us a party (reception) when we return, so I am also including that invitation along with my formal invites to my DW. I didn't want to send the At-Home-Reception invites too early because then people would tend to forget about it, especially if they're not going to my DW, so that is why I am sending the invotes 4 months prior. Whenever you decide to send them will be fine! :-)