We are planning on having a drawing of a bare tree....then our guests will put a green fingerprint as well as their names on the tree to become leaves. I saw this someplace and fell in love!
Its totally not cool to propose to his gf right before your wedding. I feel like it would steal from your special time. I agree with your FH and the guy should wait until another day after the wedding for at home.
If someone is wanting to throw you one then you should! But only is you will be somewhat comfortable with it. These people want to celebrate your upcoming marriage with you. You are special to them and they want to celebrate you.
I have a question for you girls....which date will you celebrate...the one that you legally got married at the court house or the one where you said you vows in Mexico or what not?