clgriffi- that's true. it just really bothers me that we already changed it once for his younger brother, and how his older brother. We haven't been "fighting" about it but i can sense tension right now. Should I go to him about it or sit here and wait for him to come to me? If its his issue he could come to me...right? On the other hand I want him to see that his means a lot to me and I am going to him about it to make him feel better. I wouldn't want out marriage to start off sour!