Yes! The first person asked to be the MOH was not excited at all and treated the topic like the "big pink elephant in the room" that nobody talked about. Thankfully for both of us, this person has since gotten pregnant and is now unable to attend the wedding (her due date falls right at the time of the wedding). I was both excited to hear about the pregnancy and that I was now able to ask the person I wish I'd asked in the first place...and she is PERFECT! Â Is there anyone attending your wedding that surprised you (maybe you thought they couldn't afford it, lives far away, etc.)?