Just to restate EVERYTHING these ladies said, it's your day! I went into the bridal shops KNOWING I'd be getting married on the beach and even though I thought I should choose something less formal flowy and light, I ended up choosing a heavy mermaid couture gown... that I LOVE. Its your day and you have to love your dress, don't change your dress for your destination Just to give you an idea, this is the dress I'm wearing!