I think couples showers are getting more popular. So it sounds like a great idea. As for the registry, why not just say additional info can be found on your website. That way, you won't feel as if you're specifically drawing attention to the registry. Â Also, if you're worried about sending your own invitations, why not ask the bridal party to participate. Or prepare them and give them to your mom to send out? Â I think I'll be having two showers. One with friends at my home and another with relatives and family friends at my mom's (she lives 5 hours away).