Laura, your MIL is the reason why I don't share my plans with our moms. No one is ever happy, and will want to change everything, so this way, I get what I want without the fight. Are you doing full size cupcakes? I don't think it's bad to use cake mix, you could always add something to it for extra flavor. For the projector, is there anyway your work might have one you could borrow? I have to pick our enlargements today so that we can have them in time for our AHR. I hate having that pressure.