I have 5 girls. They all bought their own dresses they were $50 on sale at Jacob. I bought them each an Itsa Bag http://www.theitsa.com/classic-luxury-itsa.asp And I also bought them all custom made clay necklaces. They will also get a special OOT Bag. So on top of the Playing cards and word find/crossword, First Aid kit, meds (advil, pepto, imodium, tums), Kleenex, wet wipes, shout wipes, tide packs and hand sanitizer. (everyone else will be getting) My ladies get get Dry shampoo, SPF 30, Charmed Life B&BW Lotion and Pocket-Bac, sewing kit from Michaels, Nail File & nail polish remover pad and travel candle. Boys get a little more of a "guys" themed OOT bag that I am still putting together. The guys are also getting Multi Tool collar stays. I love them they are soo awesome....