Hi, Because the judge gave me a ridiculous time of 1:30 pm for the legal ceremony we decided to get married at home, not tell anyone and have a simbolic ceremony instead. it is basically the same thing except they dont say the legal stuff when the pronounce you man and wife. Not sure if its too late to change what you are doing, but this might be something you want to consider. Besides, you will save money on paper work and you wont have issues getting your certificate. I saw that another DR bride was recently having issues getting hers. hope this helps. V