Great perspectives and advice, everyone to throw my opinion into the mix, here goes........I believe that there's lots of merit in the song lyrics of "All you need is love, love love......Love is all you need." If you follow your heart, and listen to your inner vioce that's connected to "who you really are at your core" it will tell you the right thing to do for you Everybody needs and wants to be loved, and I see shining your love on everyone around you as being a win /win all around. ...even those who may seem unreceptive or non-responsive. You may be surprised at the wonderfully positive impact you really have on them ....and that's all I have to say about that....... yes, all tears of Joy n Deeply Heartfelt Love !!! team MTM asst, Lynda