Congrats chcgocubgirl! and welcome to this forum community yes, you're right about getting advice to de-stress - haha......but really, you're already off to a great start by joining this BDW site, so Well Done! with all the resources + fellow brides to help you out here, you're sure to find what you need to make great plans for the perfect celebration you envision ! wishing you smooth planning, and have an incredibly awesome Italian wedding of your dreams!