Hi Amanda - as you've probably already discussed, there are valid points on both sides of the issue - AI or not. Ali also offers some great factors to consider One bride posted in these forums about how she'd also been apprehensive about outside on-lookers watching their wedding, but then on the day, found it rather endearing - to have strangers watching + smiling - sharing their joy on their Big Day - so it's really all in your perspective If the resort you choose charges fees for outside vendors, there are always ways around that. Some of our wedding couples have brought us in as their guests - who also happen to be shooting their wedding. Yes, you would need to pay for a room for them for a night or 2, but it's well worth it - to have a professional photographer capture those magical wedding "moments that matter" of your once-in-a-lifetime wedding celebration ! Wishing you all the best with your debate.......knowing there are no worries - whichever you decide, it will be amazing, as each choice has its' own unique charms Happy planning and wishing you the perfect wedding of your dreams! Enjoy team MTM asst, Lynda