Hi Ladies!!! Well I finally decided to go back thru and read this entire thread. Very informative. What sucks is that my work blocks a lot of things so most of the photos and personal photo links are blocked so I'll have to look at those once I get home. But I definitley learned some things from reading this. Just a little observation... As of right now we have no idea how many ppl are coming - not even a guess. So I am so worried about not having enough nights booked to do a cocktail hour and private function. I was originally under the impression that the "dinner for 35 guests" meant I could have a dinner reception anywhere. Well from reading this thread I realized that is not the case and that dinner meant in one of the restaurants that can accommodate 35 guests. If I want a reception/private function (which we definitely will be having) I have to pay out of pocket. WOW that was a shocker. We kinda based our budget on having that included and now I am worried I'd have to fork out money if I don't meet the min. And a little rant... Also, when I see some of you ladies say you have 50, 60, 80+ guests booked I get so jealous....especially when its months in advance. We really don't have that many ppl that we are inviting and most of our friends are procrastinators and very low on funds. We are giving them over a year to plan and save for this but I think when it comes down to it everyone is going to put it off until the last minute and then have excuses for this and that. I don't want to have to hunt ppl down and beg them and convince them to go. I do that all the time on our yearly vacations and its not something I want to do for my wedding. But I know that is part of the deal when you decide to do a DW. I think my issue is that I know I would go above and beyond for my friends and do whatever it takes but I never feel that is reciprocated. Kinda opens my eyes to the company I keep. = ( Well I just hope that our friends and family surprise us by booking early and staying a couple of nights. I really want this to be the most memorable time for not only us but for them as well. Thanks for listening!!