That is great you qualified for the free cocktail hour. We are getting a free private function so we decided to add in a welcome dinner that will be a private event instead of at a restaurant which was my original plan. We are going to send our guests to the main lobby to kill time while we are taking pictures so no need for a cocktail hour for us. I think our OOT bags are a pretty good gift/favor in itself. We are also sending out luggage tags with the pre-travel brochures, will have silk fans on the chairs during the ceremony and I think I might get pashminas for all the ladies. I just read on here that someone had them embroidered with their names and they had them hanging on the chair so people knew where they were sitting at the reception. Such a cute idea so I might have to steal it. My To Do List... - still have to work on our music playlists for the welcome dinner, ceremony and reception - finish buying a few little things for the OOT bags and put them all together to see how they look - waiting for my dress and BM dresses to come in - figure out what I am wearing under the dress - figure out what I am wearing in my hair (pin, clip, barrette, flower) - finalize the centerpieces (changed my mind so many times) - take BD photos and prepare the album to give to FI - move to new apt - get legally married - attend bridal shower - get hair done (colored, highlighted) - buy stuff for vacation (bikini, dresses, etc.) - and do lots of stuff for AHR - especially narrow down the guest list and order invites That is all the main stuff I can think of at the moment.