Oh my god, your dress its absolutely gorgeous, you look stunning! As per the reception, i am on the same boat, still undecided where to have it, i have read a lot of reviews of different reception types , you can have it semi private its usually held at Mammee Bay restaurant , and then have a private reception just for dancing and drinking or you can pay $55p/p for a totally private reception, by the beach, by the pool or at one of the restaurants , this includes, food and open bar. Do a search on reception at ror and you ll get tons of ideas, theres also pics of ladies that have already done them, im leaning towards the private poolside,, have fun planning !