Ok, now I'm confused too lol. Here's the things I was told (we also took the free wedding package and will have about 50 guests):  we can have the Seaside Grill (and pay $750 for a private event) only if resort capacity is less than 70%. They cant confirm this until a month before though. whether we choose to do a buffet or plated dinner at Seaside Grill, the cost is $55 per person plust taxes and gratuities if we want a cheaper/free option, we can eat in the buffet restaurant (World Cafe?) and they will just section off some tables for us I asked about DJ costs and was only told that we need a day pass for him. Wasn't told anything about no DJ allowed at Seaside Grill  I wasn't told anything about a $20 option, but I would LOVE that if its available! From what I've read on this forum though, its $20 if you want to eat in one of the a la carte restaurants, but it wont be private. It just allows you to all be seated together.  Hope that helps. I agree, the $55 per person (plus charges) is really high. I expected to have to pay something for the service, but not THAT much. It's an all-inclusive resort, I didn't expect to have to pay so much for food that would be eaten anyways!
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