Thanks Michelle great tip, I will try that! I am no help with the date thing because I was a bit crazy and didn't send save the dates, just sent a combo invite for mexico and ahr on the same invite and asked them to reply by sept 15th which was two months after I sent the invites because the group rate was only held for two months from when I booked it plus i pretty much knew who would come and who wouldn't. Not alot of my friends could come cause they are teachers and the date I chose was not march break so most are family and dad's friends lol but they are a great gang to party with so it should be fun! So far we have 123 confirmed replies to the AHR in July which is way more than I expected and those who haven't replied I think are coming too so I am figuring about 140 there mind you most of those coming down south want to come to the AHR also cause they are family!