Whew! Glad I'm not the only one that feels like this! We invited about 130. Only about 40 are from my side! The rest are his family, friends and his parents friends (some of which his mother hasn't seen in years!!!) We sent our STD's in June and, every day she sends me a text saying "Please add such and such to the list". I ask my FI who such and such is and half the time he has NO CLUE! The list is getting bigger and bigger! I really hope no more than 30-40 come! Mostly for money reasons. I'm so happy we aren't having a local wedding. If we were, I wouldn't even know half of the guest that attend! That would just be really weird. We are still far out and nobody has booked but people have told us they are coming and a few that have said that, we know will not come. Lots of people are all talk until it comes time to pay. Another thing with such a huge list are ordering invitations. They are expensive! STD's weren't a problem b/c I ordered them free from Vistaprint but I can't seem to find "cheap" invitations I like. Once you add a RSVP card 140 invitations are like over $250.00! If anyone has a better idea, please help. I'm leaning towards ordering beachy matte Rack Cards from Vistaprint and using them as invitations. Then using a vistaprint postcard as the RSVP. They won't look 'traditional' at all, but i don't really care about that. It will be more than half the price of traditional invitations. I just can't see spending $250 plus on invitations and I'm not a good DIY person!