I agree. I'm just kinda frustrated. I really wanted a small/intimate wedding & we are up to like 57 guest, only 8 from my family with a few couples that are mutual friends of my FI & I. But a large chunk of ppl I don't even know. Alot of them, it seems my FI doesn't even know. Ill ask him "Who's such and such?" & his reply is "Hmmm, sounds familiar, but I'm not sure, ill have to ask my mom." Just kinda frusterating. I am honored that so many people are coming to share our special day but so much for my idea of a small/intimate wedding. I know 57 isn't a large wedding compared to some local weddings, but just not really what I originally planned for a destination wedding. However, I'm realizing if we had a local wedding, I'm confident our guest list would hit 200+ so ill take 57 (and counting, hopefully not to much over that!)