-How long is the ceremony (usually)? A typical ceremony lasts about 30 minutes -What do we do after the ceremony? We are doing pictures and then dinner (some are adding a cocktail party in between) My schedule is 5:00pm wedding, 6:30pm dinner -What are those OOT bag and what to put in them? OOT BAGS!! ) They are gift bags that you put together as a thank you to your guests for coming. So far mine have t-shirts, cooling spray, flip flop playing cards, Oh Sh!t kits - tissues, antibaterial, shout wipes, and Recovery Kits - tums, tylenol, pepto, gum, etc. My totes are from VistaPrint (if you sign up for the their email lists you get tons of stuff fo free!). I also go free personalized note pads, pens, and the t-shirts. (there are plenty of pics of OOT bags, recovery kits and Oh Sh!t kits on here) -What should i expect from the wedding coordinator? If it is anything like my resort, you should expect slow communication at first! The WC will basically keep track of everything you want and where you want it, will give you all of the details you need to know, and will make sure your wedding runs perfect! Hope this helps you!! and congrats!! You will LOVE this site...I was so excited when I stumbled upon it too!!