Have you spoken with or worked with the event coordinator from either resort?? I would base the decision partially on how easy that person is to work with. Planning a wedding from so far away is tough, and this person needs to be easy to work with. That is what really solidified it for us. Our event coordinator is so awesome! She responds to every email quickly, communicates well, and goes out of her way to make things the way we want. Good luck! Let us know what you choose!