Sounds good, think we're going to do the same after all (he'll get another room the night before) but the two prior days we'll be together. Â As far as how to present it to friends/family - we figured no one would notice since you could probably do the same in the US (have a church wedding for the ceremony or something similar and then do a reception). I don't think anyone will be upset that your celebration isn't the exact day you're married, it is, after all, a celebration of your marriage Â