Hi lindzNj   First of all, Congratulations on your engagement! It is going to be a very exciting fall for you.  Secondly, I'd recommend searching through the forum and reading the different threads to find the answers to your questions. Most everything you've asked has been addressed already in the different forums so I'm sure you can find your answers!  My recommendation is to start reading travel agent reviews, or contact the TAs on this site. They can work with you to find the right resort for you and your guests. I personally chose Dreams La Romana in the Dominican Republic because it fit best with my budget, but a good TA should help you find the resort for you.  Good luck and best wishes!  HermosaHoops