I agree. Moving back the date seems like the best plan for your family. Â You could also get married at home on your AHR date and then do a symbolic ceremony on a beach, with all the trimmings, for your 1 year anniversary. I know it wouldn't be the same as your wedding day, but it could be a nice way to reflect on the year, refocus on your marriage and think about why you married your husband in the first place. And you'd still get to wear a dress on a beach.