have a wedding that YOU want to do, not what you everyone is telling you to do. When we decided to have a DW, we were prepared to be married with just the two of us, because that could happen. We can always celebrate back home with our family and friends, but for our actual wedding, we wanted to do what we knew in our heart was right for us. With that said, we have 40 guests coming (more than I could have imagined when I first planned it) so we are happy and everyone that matters are coming on our wedding so we are very happy with that. Good luck