Glad I found this forum! My FI and I were considering having a honeymoon registry and he joked about "WISHING" there was a thing as a cash donation website for weddings, so that we don't have a pre-select a date, place, hotel, activites, and excursions. Due to the size of our wedding we're not sure if we're going to be able to afford a honeymoon anymore, so this would be SOOO nice!!! I'm thinking of doing it, but have the same reservations. I also don't expect money for our wedding gift per se, but it would totally be suitable to have this on my bridal shower invitation!! That's the best way I thought of to get around asking for money when people are already spending over 1K for the DW.