Hi Frizzy! Congrats and welcome!!! Don't stress!!!!!!! the whole idea of a DW is to not stress!!! (at least that's how my FI and I are looking at it) You still have plenty of time! My date is April 9 at the Riu Negril and I'm not even going to start dress shopping until oct/nov! As for STD and invites, I only sent out the STD a couple of weeks ago because we had landed a great group quote that is only valid for a month! So we wanted to give everyone the option to take advantage! No need to freak out! I'm puzzled as to what your TA is telling you about 6 weeks for confirmation - confrimation for what????? I reserved my wedding date and time on the Riu weddings website and recieved an email from them about 3 days later saying that the date/time will be held for 90 days. At least for Riu Negril, you can't confirm your wedding until you actually book your stay. We officially booked our stay 2 weeks ago, recieved our booking confirmation # several days after that -- I then went to confirm the wedding via the Riu wedding website and it was confirmed right away! I have since contacted the wedding coordinator to ensure we have the steakhouse reserved for our reception and all is good! I don't see why it would take so long for Riu Ocho Rios, so maybe investigate that if you're worried??? Again, don't stress! just go with the flow!