Ella - we're still trying to figure out the at home reception details... ideally, I would love to have just a wine and cheese sort of thing in C's parents' backyard. Their yard is perfect, but last time we mentioned it to his mom she wasn't keen on the idea.... then they said we could probably get the local Polish hall for free, but I do NOT want a reception in a hall. I think people would expect more of a meal and a dance at a hall and that's not what I want. I really wish our back yard was big enough to accomodate the amount of people C (and his parents) want to invite, but unfortunately it's too small. So... needless to say, we have no idea. A part of me would be completely fine without anything at all! But there are certain family members who can't come south who would be heart broken if we didn't have anything at home too.... I figure I'll worry about all of that sometime in the new year.