uninterested is definitely the key word here. don't get me wrong, my parents are great - my mom asks almost every other day if there's anything she can do to help! (she's going to be in charge of printing and ironing on the logos to the OOT bags and koozies) my brothers though... no interest from them what-so-ever! ... my parents had to help pay for them to just get them to come! my one brother and his wife are even only flying in the morning of my wedding day and leaving the next! .... as for FI's parents.. they're great in that after some convincing finally seem to support the fact that we are getting married on a beach in jamaica, not at their church followed by a reception in the local polish hall. But it's weird, we see them all the time and now only 3 months out we never talk about the wedding. i guess what i'm trying to say is thank goodness for you ladies!!! i'd be going crazy without you! with the risk of sounding pretty lame, i don't exactly have any girlfriends to share this excitment with! (one of the reasons we're not having abridal party). after university, i grew up while my friends didn't. 5 years later, they're all still single .. still doing the school/partying thing... i got a few little congrats on facebook when i got engaged and that's it. so needless to say, i doubt i'm getting any sort of shower, or bachelorette or anything. I've come to term with those facts, but part of me still thinks it sucks you know? on to happier things! you gals rock!