I agree with MoonPalace2012, One of my FI nieces said that she didn't have any money and that the IRS was taking her tax return. Okay ummm really but she made it a point to attend All Star Weekend. Although she didn't say that she wasn't going, I figured this was a warning. But as FI and I stated "those that really want to see us on our day, will be there." He said "as long as I am there, this is all that matters." I have to side with my FI ;-)