FutureMrstgun, Thanks so much! Yes God has it and I have let it all go. I have a long story but short on time for FI to come home. However; I will say that FI finally had a 45 minute talk with his daughter last week. It included financial support, family structure and support, communication, participation, etc. FI and I both feel relieved and since, our communication surrounding or regarding my future daughter is so much easier to have. Hope all is going well on your end.