brendee2005, I know this is easier said than done but, don't fret! I too sent my STD's out in April and while most people were given a heads up way in advance of our DW wedding we still have some that say "I'm going, I'm gonna book". Those Type A persons like myself when it comes to planning in advance along with those that stick to deadlines booked already, however; we still have those that 'will wait to see if they can get a better price" and or truly trying to determine if they can go. If it wasn't for the state of the economy I would be pissed but what some could easily do then, may not be so easy now. We are gearing up to send our Invites out this weekend with the BYT (Book Your Trip) notice of November 1. even with that said, people already text, facebook or simply called and said I'm gonna be late booking but I'm going.