I have my 2 flower girls who will be turning 4 &5 shortly after the wedding. I have the Princess Tiana theme going so there's a crown, glasses, bracelets, fingernail polish & flavored but clear chapstick. There's also crayons, colorbook, a jewelry box, a ball and paddle (old school toy), stamps and pad. All of these will go in their princess Tiana bag that I found for $2.00 somewhere LOL and most of these products were 1 or 2 bucks found at Michaels, Five & Below, Marshalls, & Target. For my 11 yr old he's into Yu-Gi-Oh, Transformers and Airplanes so this things are based on that. However; his my nephew and sister-in-law will be attending all the way from Alaska (so exciting) so of course he will have his older cousin to hang with.
I don't have a list or order but I know that you need a total of 5 songs. If I come across the order I will send it your way.