I know exactly what you mean, there really isnt anything to plan, Ive just been doing stuff like invitations, pre-travel brochures, luggage tags, welcome books all the fun stuff, I think the only thing you can do is make sure you have your menu picked out if your doing a private reception after the ceremony. And the other things would be a preference I guess, like you could write your own vows or just pick ones they have, you can make your own music CD for when you walk down the aisle and for the reception or you could just use theirs. Do you have everything in order for you marriage certificate?