Yeah my family does the same thing we have turkey for thanksgiving and then its usually ham and and stuff for Christmas and some times we have prime rib and lobster yummm. Those soaps are a super cute idea! I might have to look into those. I havent really gotten anything for our oot bags yet, I just purchased the bags last week and they will take 4-6 weeks to come in! So Im glad I went ahead and ordered them, I have only bought antibacterial from bath and body works and thats it, I dont want to start buying too much stuff until I know some sort of head count. As far as centerpieces go mine are provided by the resort, so I dont have to worry about those, and for the reception at the DW Im considering just a calypso band or something, and then Ill have the DJ and everything at the AHR.