Let me just say from my personal experience.... I tried Davids Bridal First and nothing really stood out there to me either, then I went to a dress shop in another state and there wasnt much to try on but I tried on about 7 dresses and there was one I really liked but it was kind of heavy and it was satin and it made me kind of hot and all I could think was how it would be on the beach but it was my favorite by far but I continued my search... Onto the next dress shop a local one only 15 minutes away and I tried on at least 20 dresses there and I just wasnt getting that feeling then the last dress I tried on I was like wow I feel great in this but I just wasnt sure, so then I tried on the dress I loved in the previous store and I was equally in love with both dresses, so I left there with a decision to make... Well onto another dress shop, tried on about 5 dresses there and nothing really grabbed me then I started noticing I was only confusing myself by trying on all these dresses, and the consultant also noticed my confusion, but she also noticed I was comparing all the dresses to this one I had tried on in the local shop and thats how it knew it was the one... Did I learn my lesson no, I went to the local shop and tried on 3 other dresses bc I just had to be sure! Well when I tried on the one I had been comparing with all the others thats when I knew and thats when it hit me! I really thought I was one of those brides that wouldnt have that aha moment, I didnt cry or anything but once I tried on other dresses and kept going back to that one I just knew it, it will hit you trust me sometimes you just have to see what else is out there like me, but dont go too crazy bc you may only end up confusing yourself in the end. Sorry for the long story I hope I can help bc I went through the exact same thing as you.