Teira, I was wondering the same thing!!! I know Im not going to be able to get in the dress by myself so I was wondering if I should let him lace it up, but should he see it or not, I mean he did pay for it so hes probably going to want to see it! He saw it online just not on me, I dont know what to do yet either! I guess I'll decide tonight and see what he thinks too. I wouldnt say its bad luck or anything like that, I just want it to be more of a suprise than anything.