Oh I did I told my friend they werent invited and she knew she spoke up for me, and said there wasnt enough room, I had to hear from my friend about it, my FSIL didnt ask me! Sometimes I wish I hadnt asked her to be in my wedding, she hasnt done a damn thing! My friend is planning it all on her own, it was kind of just thrown on her, and I feel terrible about it, I mean she was more than willing to do it, but its putting all the stress on her, and she not even able to come to our wedding.