Thank you Laura!! Ok wow thats just crazy!! I know how you feel though, sometimes I wish we werent having one either, its been pretty stressful, everything with the DW Ive made all the choices on my own and my mom has let me make all the choices, now the AHR thats a totally different story, FI mother is in the wedding business so whenever I want to do something out of the oridinary she gives me this look shes more of a traditional wedding kinda gal, and has a say in alot for our AHR whatever I dont care really it just gets stressful I know how you feel!!! Anyways, I think your wording on your invites were fine, I loved them!!! I think you should leave them honestly, if anything maybe her suggestion about the phone number is okay, I have noticed that not a lot of people like to get on computers, we made our wedding site and maybe only 10 people actually looked at it, I guess some people just dont get on the net, so the leaving the phone number might be a good option but other than that I think what you have is perfect.