So I just added up my big costs ( wedding package, photog, centerpieces, alterations, trip and welcome dinner) and it looks like I have to come up with about $8500 by the wedding! And that's not including small things here and there ( shoes, sashes, decorations, a few last minute things for oot bags) !!! I kind of want to cry right now! Not to mention not a single person has booked their trip yet