This is a little late but here's my to do list.... Yikes.... Purchase FI attire Purchase ring bearer attire Purchase flower girl attire Purchase ring bearer pillow or shell Purchase flower girl basket or pail Decide on music for ceremony, first dance, father/daughter, mother/son, etc... Purchase sand ceremony stuff Dress alterations ( scheduled for February 18) Turn in passport paperwork for FI and daughter Purchase bags for OOT Iron on transfers Purchase last few items for OOT bags EVERYTHING for AHR ( going to look at a venue this weekend) Choose dinner menu Get all paperwork for marriage license together Decide on a guestbook Purchase cake boxes Purchase chair sashes & table overlays Purchase rose petals for ceremony isle Find and purchase a TTD dress Decide on centerpieces DIY projects: menus, place cards, pre travel packets,luggage tags, chapstick labels, photo share cards, cake box labels And most importantly ... Starting paying everything off!