AfricanVenus

I find the first one to be the most interesting of the 3. I also like the dress you currently have, but #1 is my pick.

The link says the page can't be found...

I wanted to wear my hair down, but sometimes it comes down to the style of dress you have and what hairstyle best shows it off. I have a one-shoulder gown and the suggested hair for that style is up. Sometimes, it's about comfort, climate, the texture of your hair, etc.

@cougs: I'm with you on that one. I thought it was cool though. Points for originality, but definitely concerned about that paint on the dress issue!

Here's another cool idea I found on this photog's website: unity painting!

A beauty!

Your pics were amazing. Such an inspiration!

Good stuff! Happy planning!

@Vettiebean: Nice choice with the pink sapphire. I toyed with the idea myself, lol.

I know that's the menu for MDC, as my sis is looking to get married there! The food should be awesome. Ackee canapes sound yummy!

IslandBride8: I see your point. I think some of the responses could've been said more nicely, so don't feel dumped on. Maybe your thread will call to their attention the need to lower their prices.

This is gorgeous! Never seen one like it.

Vineland, NJ bride here (way down South Jersey). I'm getting married in Nuevo Vallarta, Mexico on June 25, 2011. Five months and change left. Aaah! All the best to you ladies on your planning.

I'm a sapphire E-ring girl too! Yay for us

This ring is gorgeous. One of the best I've seen on here. I've never heard of a champagne diamond. Nice twist to the traditional

Now that I'm back, more menu ideas please, lol. Love you Queen!

Why not ask your WC and get an idea of how big a holiday this is? Good luck!

Hello ladies! For all those getting married at this property in Negril, I went on a site visit on Dec. 22, 2010. I have photos of the property available for viewing if you would like. PM me your email addy and I'll send them to you.

I'm based in Spanish Town (where I grew up), but have been to Oracabessa, Ocho Rios, and Kingston. Still have Mandeville and Negril to go to. A lot of it is visiting family all over the island.

You're going to love it here!

I'm stuffing myself full of good food as I write...

Amanda+Dave: Not sure if this will mean anything to you, but when human efforts fail, just pray and let it go. Sisters are a great thing when it's good. But when it's bad...My hope is that the rest of your wedding planning will bring more joy to replace the months of heartache.

People really have to get it thru theirs heads that weddings are for the couple. It is not a democracy. Those who would have the audacity to complain are missing the point entirely. While couples will keep their guests' comfort in mind, the party ain't for them. Like everyone said, they're not being forced to come. I feel like guests genuinely want to come, but are flustered that it may cost money to do so. They then internalize this feeling as something akin to you not wanting them to be there by "making" it so expensive. Thus, they complain. At the same time, they can politely decline and send you a gift. I don't see the point in making the couple feel bad about a special moment in their lives. GC2008, just be upfront with your guests that you would never ask them to pay more than necessary to make your wedding happen. However, don't go around trying to over-explain things, b/c then folks will smell fear in your compassion and really drive you batty. Be gentle, but firm. "You're invited to my wedding. You have the right to decline. This will not be used against you for future life events. If you cannot afford to come, an AHR will be provided for you. Do you understand these rights?" (Sorry, the last show I watched was Law and Order: SVU, lol).

First off, that's a terrible thing to encounter. Second, I would agree with your FI and just let it go. However, to assuage your frustrations, I would also contact the BBB only. If someone asks you what you think of the place, give them your honest opinion, but don't go off at them on every site you come across. Praise God your ring was fixed and it was done gratis. I think karma will handle the rest. Again, I'm sorry it happened.

I'm thinking of getting my TTD dress from them too!